Marriage, Relationships & Families

A question about : Heartbroken, my husband left me this morning for another woman

Exactly as the title says, heartbroken, can't function.

A question about : Feeling guilty. Am I wrong? (parents)

Hi guys.

First of all, I apologise for the long-winded post.

Bit of background.. my parents have lived abroad for the past 6, coming on 7 years. I lived in a small flat which hindered the amount of times they could visit but I just gave up my bedroom for them while they stayed for a week or 2. Last June, I purchased a house with my OH. 3 bedrooms so plenty of room for my parents to stay if they wanted to.

A question about : Wikivorce

Has anyone on here used it to do their divorce and is it any good? I don't mean just looking for advice, I mean using their actual divorce service.

I am aware I can DIY my divorce but to be honest the cost between that and using their service isn't much different.

Thoughts?

A question about : childminder letting kids play xbox 18+

A question about : Those who are waiting to TTC (New Thread)

Following from the old thread here (https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/....php?t=3213038) which goes on for over 150 pages (!) I thought I might strike up a fresh thread in the hope that it might be more appealing than sticking a post at the end of 150 pages....

So here goes!

Please feel free to post your stats, I'll go first to get the ball rolling:

My TTC Stats:

A question about : help please freaking out slightly

At Xmas my dad who lives overseas sent a letter and inside was a card for his twin sister which he asked me to post for him.
I have never met said twin, at least not that I remember, my dad left when I was 2 so assume contact with his family broke down then.
The address on the card was literally just round the corner so I popped in a little note saying how lovely it would be to meet.
Well last night she phoned!

A question about : Dog mess outside my gate

Hi there, tricky problem,
Dog mess has started appearing outside my front gate on a fairly regular basis. The first two times (all this year) I've cleaned it up (gagging in the process I hate dogs) but today I've discovered another load.

The gate opens straight onto to a public pavement so it's filthy and disgusting behaviour plus a health hazard.

I'm beginning to think that I should not clean it up though. By doing so am I just encouraging whoever this cretin is to keep doing it?

A question about : wife swapping.....

Lured you in with a racy title!
Basically this is a question about role swapping within the home.
At the moment I am a STAHM, have been pretty much for 13 years. My youngest starts school in September and although not financially necessary the plan was that i return to work part-time (I am a level 3 Teaching Assistant).
My husband works shifts at a job he despises, the shifts are killing him, he is exhausted de-moralised and miserable.