Top Ten Products that you DON'T need (Babies!)

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I don't see a thread discussing this.

I didn't know what items we needed/didn't need for our baby (she is 5 months). There was a couple of items that I know that we didn't need like the nappy stacker. I found that even though cot sets are lovely, they are full of items that are not recommended to have because of SIDs.

But what items have you regretted buying?

What items have you bought which have been useful?

I would have to say I disagree with the Electric Steam Steriliser being a good item. We bought a 6 bottle steam steriliser second hand (along with some other items) and this is one of my regrets. When you break the seal you break the sterilisation which means you have to run it every time you have done a bottle which is a waste of electricity. We use cold water sterilisation, lasts 24 hours. mum I know uses a bottle which has an inbuilt steam sterilisation for the microwave.

Second item would be the nappy bin. The Cassettes are expensive. The Cassettes are Ј10 for three at the moment and the price goes up and down like a yoyo, they also get more expensive the larger the nappies. I stopped buying these when I realised that the amount spent on this was crazy and we couldn't get them at Ј7.50.
Nappy sacks cost 35p per 300 bags.

We don't use the door bouncer as it only fits on one door which means she is out the way of supervision as we cannot see her and she is in the way. She also falls asleep very quickly in it. Luckily we only bought it for Ј5 second hand.

Good items we have bought have been a Fisher Price electric swing. She loves it and it was very handy in getting her to sleep in the early days. It is also the most expensive as we spent Ј70ish on it. Suffice to say we debated over it before buying!

Best item has to be Grobags. She is a fidget bum and blankets are off her in seconds (even swaddled) Grobag keeps her warm at night and no chance of being on her face like a blanket might be. Official grobags are expensive, but they don't shrink as much as others.

Audio baby monitor is also good, she wakes us up by chatting in the morning, obviously you can hear crying etc or (if you have a mat attached) get alerted if no movement/breathing has been detected.

Bumbo is also a good item. Pricey if bought new. My mum bought me the Bumbo. Profits of the Bumbo do go to charities in South Africa (hopefully...). As with all toys baby should be supervised as there is a 'tipping out' issue - so that doesn't really bother me. I would call it a lifesaver as she loves to sit up and as I had a caesarean it is difficult for her to be up against me all the time.

My partner made an over the cot changer, it has a hinge so it gives me a nice space to change baby or to bath her. It doesn't match the cot or look especially pretty but it is practical.

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• Thanks for this! I am pregnant for the first time so found this really interesting. I hope you get more replies with people sharing their experiences! I wonder if posting it on the main marriages and families board too might get more replies...? (So dads can answer as well)
• Things we loved, jumperoo, baby bath, play mat with activities above, cot mobile, travel system, gro bags and Medela swing electric breast pump.
  Things that were a waste of money for us, buying a cheap stroller (baby wouldn't go in it, as he preferred parent facing and a high up position) steriliser (we ended up using mam bottles which self sterilise in the microwave) bouncer and swing, little one wouldn't take to them at all he had reflux so would only settle on your shoulder.
  Every single baby is different though and I'd try before you buy with most big things if at all possible as resell value is pretty crap. If you can try a friends bouncer or swing once baby gets here, I'd do that before committing to buying.
• Not very expensive but I found baby bibs a waste of money. I used them for a short time, but then bought a bumper pack of muslin cloths on Ebay and found them much more practical. They can also be used when your child gets older.
  My baby bath and changing mat also never really got used. I used a cople of old towels (double folded) on the bed or floor as a changing mat, and an old washing up bowl to bathe them in.
  Baby changing bag. I bought a special one, which wasn't very practical and in the end bought a normal flight bag, which saw me through DS1 and the twins. Lots of pockets, surdy and with the addition of portable changing mat, did the job.
  Baby towels - only used once or twice.
• Best item for us was our Ewan The Dream Sheep, it guarantees our daughter will be asleep in about 5 minutes flat! The best Ј30.00 we've spent and when the stitching started coming away we even got sent a brand new one free of charge.
  Our bouncy chair was invaluable in the early days. The medela swing breast pump was used lots in our house and never had any troubles, yes its expensive, but sometimes its worth spending that bit extra for a quality item. Lots of people don't use a baby bath, but ours was used every night and now our daughter is a bit older she uses it in the garden when we have a warm day and plays with her bath toys in it, keeps her entertained for ages!
  Agree with the earlier poster about Gro Bags, really good idea. We got all of ours at TK Maxx for about Ј9.00 each.
  Items that weren't needed or used included the door bouncer, she just didn't like and it got in the way. Also we bought quite an expensive baby monitor, this has never really been used as we can hear her all through the house!
• We barely used the door bouncer but a jumperoo was fantastic and got a lot of use. Mind you for baby entertainment nothing beat wearing bright patterened socks and wiggling my toes!
  Fabric sling was incredibly useful when baby wouldn't settle & I'm looking forwards to having it for my 2nd (so I can still play with my older one)! I think the last time I used it he was around 7 months at a friends bbq party - he went to sleep and I was able to enjoy the party knowing he was close & happy (we were only expecting to stop a couple of hours)!
  Not quite the same but I advise against stocking up on particular brands / sizes of nappies and wipes. Some never suited ours, in particular the standard Johnsons wipes although we used them for cleaning after DIY so they didn't go to waste!
  I'd say the pushchair is the most expensive purchase that has the most potential to go wrong. Do your research, make sure the one you want works for all / most scenarios that you expect to be using it for. I know a few people who have regretted not getting a buggy that faces both ways. Personally I wish I'd bought 2 to start with - quinny zapp to use with the car seat when popping to the shops, plus something for walking on forest trails and the side of the rugby pitch. We had the M&P Sola which wasn't bad, but we got a zapp second hand and really notice the difference pushing it through the shops / fitting it in the car boot. Not that we did that much shopping!!
• Baby bath - for us it was a good buy, as bathroom at the time was a draughty, cold, revolting place and hubby strong enough to carry a full baby bath into the kitchen to empty it. However if you have a nice bathroom don't bother.
  Special changing unit - don't bother. If you don't want to do it kneeling down on the floor, upstairs do it on the bed and downstairs do it on the dining room table. You put them on a changing mat, so mess it contained.
  Anything special to put mucky nappies in. Value nappy sacks do the job perfectly fine, and if it's particularly stinky, and not getting taken straight out to dustbin, jun double bag it.
  Fancy rocking baby seats. My daughter was perfectly happy with a basic bouncy seat. Some babies like the rocking seats, but at least wait till baby is born to see if you need to spend the money.
  Muslin squares - best buy ever. Recommend coloured ones though, as they wash better.
  Toys for under 3 months - don't bother, save your money till child is interested in toys
  Travel changing mat - I found this invaluable, baby changing places can be revolting
  Special baby changing bag - just use a regular bag. I used a rucksack as it left both hads free, and hubby wasn't embarressed to be seen with it.
  You can spend so much money on babies, so buy second hand where you can. Most secondhand baby stuff has hardly been used, and if it's hard plastic, or machine washable it is easy enough to make sure it is clean to your own standards. Save your money for the stuff you really want/need new, like car seats and cot mattresses.
• 1. Door baby bouncer (up to Ј30) Yep, agree this is a waste, used it a handful of times only as first she hated it then when she had more strength she just kept pushing off then swinging back and I was scared of her hitting the frame.
  2. Baby washing bowls (up to Ј10) Any bowl will do!
  3. Manual breast pump (up to Ј80) Agree, if you're BF an electric is worth the extra Ј10 or so, much better results and more comfortable. I exclusively expressed for 12 weeks and if that's your plan hire a hospital grade one for Ј40 a month, not as cheap but saves so much time and produces about twice as much milk.
  4. Baby hammock (can cost more than Ј150) Lol what? Never had this
  5. Fabric sling (cost Ј15-Ј80) Completely disagree. Use mine several times a week, rarely use a buggy as it's just so much easier. Still at 2 I'll use a sling to give her some support and make her more comfortable in a hip carry. One of the best buys imo so long as you get the right kind (something that supports knee to knee, I use fabric wraps but any soft structured carrier is fairly adaptable. Anything with a metal frame or that doesn't offer baby enough support like baby bjorn type things you'll find you don't use anywhere near as much as they're just so uncomfortable)
  6. Nappy stacker (between Ј5-Ј20) Sounds useless!
  7. Bumbo seat (Ј30-Ј40) DD kept sliding out! Won't be getting one for the second one.
  8. Cot mobile (up to Ј30) Brilliant buy. Ours plays music and it settles her down, have taken the mobile bit off and just use the music box now.
  9. Swaddling blanket (Ј10-Ј25) DD hated to be swaddled. Despite being a preemie where they swaddle them in the nicu she would never ever allow her arms and legs to be contained. Agree with other posters though grow bags are brilliant.
  10. Nappy disposal bin (Ј10 to over Ј50) Used this for quite a while but its not essential, the cassettes cost a lot, if you wrap a nappy tightly there's no smell anyway.
  For me I'd also say the adaptors to put the car seat on the buggy frame were useless. You're not supposed to keep a baby in a car seat for more than an hour/2 hours depending on the type of seat, so I always just swapped the baby into the carrycot so I knew she was laid flat.
  Also toys for under 3 months old, they don't need anything!
• I didn't want a changing station - I was terrified youngling would fall off. So we got & stayed flexible enough to do changes on a (well padded) nappy mat on the floor.
  Two decades later our knees are not convinced but all three babies have never fallen off & are now healthy hearty hulking great young persons.
  Should I find myself in a wheelchair, I'll have to use *something*, but there are photos of my having my nappy changed on a plank across the bath. It's remarkable what you can do when you need & want to.
• Neoprene bottle "keeper warmers" whatever theyre called. They work and useful to attach bottles to prams, bags etc.
• Best buys:
  Door bouncer - most on this thread seem to think they are a waste of money, but my LG loves hers, she would spend all day in it if we let her! It's now at Gran's house, as we have a Jumperoo now.
  Jumperoo - got one second hand for a tenner..no way would I have paid full price for it. She does like it, but not Ј100 like it!
  Bouncy Chair - life saver in the early days, let me get a cuppa while it was still hot. We bought two, a cheap one about Ј7, it wasn't much good until LO was about 4 months (despite it saying from birth), and a more supportive one that cost about Ј30.
  Car Seat Base - Ours isn't ISOFIX, it uses the seatbelt to hold the base in place, but it's the same idea...I LOVE it...in fact, I hate having to taking DH car because I don't have the base and have to strap the car seat in.
  Waste of money:
  Bumbo - LG hated it, went in it once for about 10 minutes.
  Close Caboo Sling - Just couldn't get to grips with it. Bought it in a hurry without much thought. Then tried a mei tai and buckle carrier through a local sling library, so we are now waiting on our own mei tai arriving in the post, and I can't wait! So research slings etc properly, and try as many on as you can!
  Play Mat - bought it for DD's Xmas, when she was 3 months, she'd outgrown it by 5 months. Much better with a blanket and a few toys on the floor.
• Just to add something I would never buy as we are going Baby Led Weaners rather than crappy baby food.
  Food nets! We discussed these at length at weaning group. What a terrible idea, what are you telling your child about food when they are sucking it out of a net. Yuk! I don't know why manufacturers are engineering our brains to think that babies will immediately choke to death when given food.
• I know a lot of people think changing units are a waste of time and money, but we still use ours every day for changing nappies and getting our son dressed. He's 13 months and probably a bit lazy as he doesn't try to escape or roll off. If I change his nappy on the floor, however, he'll crawl away at the first opportunity. It's just a simple one with 3 shelves and we'll probably use it to store toys later.
  We bought the fisher price infant to toddler rocker and it was invaluable for the first 6 months but once he could sit unsupported he didn't want to be in it. We've put it away for now as it's not much use for the in-between stage he's at, and will have to wait and see if he likes sitting in it once he can walk and get in and out of it by himself.
  I had a stretchy wrap style sling which he was happy in as a newborn, then I bought a Manduca carrier which he hated. Wish I'd been able to try one out before buying.
  He had lots of fun in his jumperoo (bought on special offer, wouldn't have paid full price) but now too tall for it, so it's in the loft for a future baby. Didn't want to risk a door bouncer as we have a dog and could imagine lots of potential problems there...
  Our baby bath was also a good buy (bought for a few quid second hand) and was used for about 6 months until he could sit up in the big bath. Haven't bothered with a bath seat or anything, just a decent bath mat.
• https://www.elc.co.uk/Twist-and-Turn-...efault,pd.html
  Oh and nominating THIS as the greatest older-baby (it's age 12 months) toy ever. Picked it up in a charity shop for like 75p or something and both of mine (just turned 2 and just turned 1) have played with it for absolutely hours... it's got the youngest completely and totally engrossed in putting the ball in to roll down the roof, clapping as it goes, opening the door, removing the ball and repeating... meanwhile her sister's nicked the keys to use as either bracelets or a magnifying glass (she's been watching that minibeasts programme on TV). Had seen it in the shop and dismissed it as boring - but I've not known something grab the youngest as much as this has done!
• Best buys for us:
  1. Baby hammock - bought second hand, DD slept in it from night she came home from hospital until she worked out how to climb out at 8 months.
  2. Hospital grade double pump - I exclusively expressed for 7 months and could get loads out in 5 mins with this.
  3. Breastflow bottles - she had to work for her milk as she would if breast feeding the 'traditional' way.
  4. Jumperoo - she loved it, but was an early walker so wasn't in it for long, sadly.
  5. Anbesol liquid - brilliant for awkward teething.
  6. Stokke Xplory - she had every nap in the carry cot until about 6 months old. From 6 months had her facing me, up high. Great for eye contact and keeping away from car exhausts etc.
  7. Travel cot with mattress - bought second hand and used as a safe place to put her while I went to the loo etc from about 6 months onwards.
  8. Car seat mirror - great for seeing what she was doing while rear facing (up to about 2.5 years old).
  9. Pacapod changing bag. Work of absolute genius.
  10. Vibrating chair - soothed her and gave me a safe place for her to sit.
  11. Sleeping bags - she often co-slept and I could fall asleep holding the bottom knowing she wouldn't fall off the bed.
  Things we didn't bother with, and never needed:
  1. Changing unit.
  2. Moses basket.
  3. Baby food.
  4. Walker.
  5. Baby bath.
  6. Rocking chair.
  7. Dummies - her thumb is attached to her.
  8. Baby toiletries until she was mobile (and only non-Johnsons ones since).
  9. Baby shoes until she was walking.
  10. Outfits until she was over 6 months.
  11. Baby bath. She just came in with me or DH.
• Hello did you find the anbesol liquid or gel better?
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• Best buys for us:
  1. Baby hammock - Never used one until my 4th baby and then thought I would give it a go as my babies have previously been prone to flat heads so wanted to do everything to prevent it. She self settled from day one in it and it lasted to around 7/8 months. I've purchased one for this baby too
  2. Muslin Squares - you can't have enough they work for mopping up spills, dribbles, using as a very light weight blanket, a snuggler, all sorts!
  3. Bumbo - fantastic so mobile to move around.
  4. Jumperoo - Best invention ever!
  5. Car seat base - until you have been stuck in a down pour trying to strap a car seat in you will never realise how much of a god send these are.
  6. Clevascoop - Haven't used it yet but I have ME and it causes my short term memory to be very poor, this eliminates the need to count scoops which I would just lose count after 3
  Waste of Money buys:
  1. Fancy expensive baby monitor - cheaper one does same job.
  2. Tummy tub bath - Babies are really difficult to get out of it when they wet lol, we ended up using it as a bucket.
  3: Wipes warmer - never purchased one but seriously why would you need to warm wipes!!
  4. Vibrating chair/swing - tried both and both were hated by my children, this time I have got a nuna leaf so will see how that goes, if baby doesn't like that it will be going in the cheapest bouncing chair going as my 4th loved that!
  I think there are a million things I would never use but that doesn't mean it is not a lifesaver for someone else and over my 13 years of being a parent I have found one baby may have loved something but the next one hated it! I also found things change quickly, I haven't had a baby for 5 years and wasn't expecting to have any more so I have had to buy everything again, there was that much to choose from I felt like a FTM all over again
• Had a couple of experiences where babies dont like cold wipes. So hold the wipes for 30 seconds prior. Takes that long to undo vests/clothes.